big city vs small town sex work: whats actually different

DE dee_birmingham · England, Birmingham · · 167 words · 👁 667 views

Right. Ive done sex work in Birmingham and Ive done stints in some proper tiny towns round the midlands and let me tell you somethin - its not all the same.

Biggest difference is discretion. In Birmingham, no one gives a shit. Youre just another face moving through the city. Some bloke sees you meetin a client, hes got his own life to worry about. Small towns? Everyone knows everyones business. One wrong move and suddenly youre the talk of the local pub.

Clients are different too. Birmingham johns are professionals mostly. Businessmen. Lawyers. Tech lads. Know how to behave. Small town clients can be more desperate, less smooth. More likely to push boundaries cos theyve got less experience with sex workers.

Safety wise Birmingham wins every time. More options. More hotels. More escape routes. More anonymity. In a tiny village youre basically trapped if somethin goes wrong.

Look. Im not saying small town work cant be done. Its just way more complicated. Way more mental energy spent coverin your tracks.

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