jayden_london ยท London

client types when you're trans

Not all clients are the same, but being a trans woman in this industry means you get really good at reading people fast. There's the fetishists who want me specifically because I'm trans. They're not

15 May 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 27
keely_liverpool ยท Liverpool

why i dont apologise for my job

Right. So everyone's got an opinion about sex work and honestly I'm proper sick of it. My mum still thinks Im gonna wake up one day and get a 'proper job' whatever that means. Like working in an offic

6 May 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 26
cass_manchester ยท Manchester

that night with michael

Sometimes a client isn't just a transaction. Sometimes they're something else entirely. Michael wasn't typical - mid-50s, kind eyes, nervous hands that couldn't quite stay still when we first met at t

26 Apr 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 36
bex_sheffield ยท Sheffield

weird weeks and how they happen

Some weeks just dont make sense and this one feels like that weird space between knowing what youre doing and having absolutely no clue. Ive been thinking a lot about my family lately, about how they

22 Apr 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 35
becky_nottingham ยท Nottingham

eight years of this and why i'm still here

People always wanna know why an escort stays in the game. Like there's some big dramatic reason. Truth is, it's complicated and simple at the same time.I started this work when I was 23 and broke. Not

11 Apr 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 40
keely_liverpool ยท Liverpool

why im not ashamed of being a sex worker

Right so everyone's got an opinion about what I do and honestly Im proper sick of it. Like my mam still thinks Im gonna wake up one day and get a 'proper job' whatever that means. As if sitting in an

7 Apr 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 39
dee_birmingham ยท Birmingham

why small town sex work is a different beast

Look. Ive done sex work in Birmingham for seven years now and lemme tell you something proper important about how different this is compared to rural areas. City work is a whole different game.In a bi

25 Mar 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 43
bex_sheffield ยท Sheffield

weird weeks and mental health breaks

Ive been quiet on here for a bit and thats mostly because everything felt like too much? My heads been a bit of a mess lately. Work is fine, clients are good, but something inside me feels like its sl

20 Mar 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 47
bex_sheffield ยท Sheffield

when therapy feels like homework

I keep staring at this workbook my therapist gave me and honestly its just sitting there making me feel guilty. Like somehow Im supposed to magically fix everything by writing down my feelings or trac

13 Mar 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 53
jade_london ยท London

Nine years in London

Nine years in London now. More of my life has happened here than in Cork at this stage, which is a strange thing to realise. I went home at Christmas and the city felt smaller than I remembered, and...

17 Feb 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 53
keely_liverpool ยท Liverpool

why i dont apologise for being an escort

Listen. Im proper sick of people looking down their noses at sex work like we're some kinda second class citizens. Ive been doing this job for years now and I know exactly what Im about. Its work. Har

16 Feb 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 55
bex_sheffield ยท Sheffield

nights and mornings after

Sometimes I cant sleep after a client and sometimes I cant stop sleeping. Theres no middle ground with this work, just extremes of exhaustion and weird alertness where my brain is spinning but my body

13 Feb 2026 ๐Ÿ‘ 60