Right. Gonna tell ya something about sex work geography that most folk dont understand. Ive done this job in tiny villages and now in Birmingham and lemme be straight - big cities are where its actually at.
In small towns everyone knows your business. One wrong move and suddenly youre the talk of the local pub. Gossip spreads faster than jam on toast. In Birmingham I can blend in. Nobody gives a shit who Im meeting or what Im doing. Total anonymity.
Safety wise its night and day. Small towns youve got like three clients and everyone knows everyone. In a big city I can screen properly. Multiple sources. Actual verification. More options means I can be way more selective about whos getting near me.
Money talks too. Birmingham clients have cash and expectations. Theyre professional types. Not some bloke hoping for a discount because we went to school together or his cousin knows my aunt. Urban clients understand this is a service. Transactional. Clean.
Not saying small town work is impossible. Just saying its harder. Way harder. Id never go back.