Right. Lets talk real talk about sex work in different sized places. Ive done both and theres bare differences people dont chat about.
Birmingham is massive. Proper big city with loads of spots, different kinds of clients, enough anonymity that youre not gonna bump into your mum's mate at Tesco after an appointment. When I started in a tiny Midlands town it was completely different energy.
Small towns mean everyone knows everyone. One wrong move and suddenly youre the talk of the local pub. Gossip spreads faster than herpes in fresher week. In Birmingham I can do my thing and most people couldnt give a toss. Theyre too busy with their own lives.
Client quality changes too. Big cities mean more professionals, more variety. Small towns youre dealing with same five blokes who think theyre doing you a favour by booking. Proper grim.
Safety wise big city wins every time. More options. More escape routes. More people about if something goes sideways. Small town? You're basically on your own.
Not saying dont do sex work in small places. Just know what youre getting into. Different rules. Different risks.