I've been doing this work long enough to know that people have all sorts of wild assumptions about what male escorts actually do. Most folks imagine something totally different from the reality.
Clients aren't just looking for sex. They're seeking connection, understanding. Sometimes that means physical intimacy, sure. But often it's about being heard, being seen in a way they aren't in their regular lives. The midlands can feel isolating sometimes. Small towns, limited social circles. I provide something beyond the transactional.
Men who book me aren't always looking for stereotypical sexual encounters. Some want conversation. Some want gentle touch that isn't sexualized. Some want someone who won't judge their desires or their bodies. I've learned that vulnerability looks different for everyone.
The expectations shift constantly. Gender plays such a complex role. Men are supposed to be confident, always wanting sex. But my clients reveal how much more nuanced human desire actually is. Emotional needs don't follow neat categories.
What interests me most is how rarely this work gets discussed from a male perspective. Female sex workers have created incredible spaces for dialogue. But male experiences remain mostly unspoken. Maybe that's why I keep writing.