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There's this weird thing that happens when clients realize I'm trans. Some of them get weird. Not all, but enough that I've developed this sixth sense about how interactions are gonna go.Most trans se
Sometimes I look at my kitchen and wonder how many people would see this completely ordinary scene and have no idea. Dishes from the kids' breakfast, a half-folded load of laundry, my work diary open
Weird how my doctoral research in social psychology keeps bleeding into my current work. Not that I planned it this way, but understanding human behaviour is apparently a transferable skill whether yo
Right so everyone thinks Birmingham is some massive sex work paradise and small towns are dead boring. Lemme tell ya something different.Ive worked both. Seven years now and Ive seen bare different sc
Sometimes I think people in Dublin or Cork don't understand how complicated logistics get when you're working outside the main cities. I'm in Sligo, which means every booking requires serious planning
Right. Lets talk about working as an escort in different sized places. Ive done both and honestly? Big cities like Birmingham are the absolute business compared to some tiny village where everyone kno
Two cities. Two sets of regulars. Two different energy landscapes. Some weeks I'm barely keeping up, other weeks I'm sailing smooth like the Tawe River on a quiet morning.Logistics are always the kill
Look, I'm beyond tired of people who've never done sex work telling me what my life is like. Especially the self-proclaimed radical feminists who think they're saving me from something. From what, exa
Getting between Swansea and Cardiff is its own kind of marathon. Train schedules, petrol prices, client expectations. Sometimes I feel like a logistics manager more than an escort.Last week was rough.
People always want to know about the big switch, like there's some dramatic story. But honestly? I was already selling my labour before. At the hotel, I was selling my time, my smile, my energy. The o
People always assume academia and sex work are worlds apart. They're not. Not really.My doctoral research was about labour economics and marginal work identities. Which, looking back, feels hilariousl
Some days I feel like I'm living two completely separate lives. School drop off at 9, client meeting at 11, pick up hockey gear, quick shower, another appointment. My calendar is a complex dance of sc
Most people don't want to talk about money. But when you're a single mum with two kids and bills that don't stop, money isn't just numbers. It's oxygen.I started this work two years ago after my separ
Right. Lets talk real talk about sex work in different sized places. Ive done both and theres bare differences people dont chat about.Birmingham is massive. Proper big city with loads of spots, differ
The light changes first. Even before the leaves start turning, there's something different about the Kerry landscape in late September. Softer somehow. Less harsh. My work follows these shifts, always
Right. Let's talk brass tacks about money in this work. People love to gossip but no one talks real numbers and Im sick of it.Last month I cleared just over £4500. Thats after my overheads. Rent for m
People always assume this job is just about getting naked and doing whatever some bloke wants. But after eight years, I can tell you it's way more complicated than that.Most of my clients aren't buyin
Right. Gonna tell yow somethin proper about workin in different spots. Ive done both Birmingham and some right tiny places round the midlands and lemme tell ya its not what people think.Small towns lo